Random-ness (And Floods and Fires)

 Y'all, I STILL can't seem to upload photos from my laptop to the blog. I am really upset. I think my laptop just needs be updated, or maybe I need a new one? I have even tried to allow pop-ups, and it still doesn't work, and I am sad. 

I am frustrated, sad, lonely, scared, mad, and even more frustrated. I see everyone's lives moving forward, and mine is not. It was, but then I messed it up. I haven't really cried since I left Anker the first time in January 2024. I think I am too numb and frustrated. Did I say that I was frustrated? I probably should journal more, which I haven't in the last few years. I used to journal weekly, or at least every couple of weeks, but in the last few years, I just haven't. 

Life is hard when you are nearly 50. Social media doesn't make it easy, either, with everyone's lives coming up "perfect". The perfect wife, mom, woman of God, employer, boss lady/babe. I feel stuck. And sad. And yes, I keep praying...keep listening. I don't feel qualified to do anything. I jokingly want to be a social media star (I have some links on my YouTube Channel (not sure why I can't see my videos on my laptop, but they show up on my phone), and I have 10 suscribers, and quite a few views, so that it is good :) I would love to be able to get paid to rant on YT or IG about things, and would love to get sponsored to try and use certain things. I want a job where I can travel (hello, Social Media Life is definitely for me!!), but on a more realistic level, I just want a job where I am respected and appreciated for my work and input. 

Anyway, I just feel really..at the end of my rope, to be honest. I have thought about doing a business of doing rides and respite for people in the city, but I don't think that that would be a sustainable way of life. I also think that it would be a lot of work, and money that I don't have to put out/up for it. 

So, basically, I am available for free/pd trips (business/first class, even better!)!! I have passport, will travel! I always thought a trip that involved travelling would be good (like a travel writer/blogger).

What does an almost-50-childless-single-ish lady blog/video about? I feel that the only good thing I am good at is getting fired. Oh, and did I mention that I have a few hidden disabilities? Yah, that's cool, too. I have (most likely) Traumatic Brain Injuries from my many (at least 12, most likely more) cardiac arrests that I had when I was a baby. That's right, as if I don't have enough problems, I have that. I can't be on my feet for long periods of time, so a lot of retail jobs are out. I can't work at places like Starbucks or McDonald's, because that it is too much time on my feet, and not to mention I can't work in fast/chaotic work environments. Due to my TBI, I find that I don't operate as usual. I tend to not have a filter (though there are A LOT of things that I could say that I don't), and say things that I shouldn't, or that I don't need to say. I don't seem to retain things like I should. I actually think I was better at this in my early years. Maybe that is a part of aging? So, to sum up, I really am good at nothing, except getting fired, I have decided.

One thing that is kind of cool, is that I have started teaching at our Sunday school again, and I also have decided to take on Sunday school Coordinator. So, that should be fun :) My friend (and pastor's wife) and I went to organize the Sunday school room last Monday, and it was good to get out and do something productive and creative. Plus, a free coffee and fun visit didn't hurt, either!

Anker and I went to his Brain Injury Association picnic last Thursday, and we got shut down by the city, as they didn't have a permit, so that was fun. I don't know why they didn't get said permit beforehand, as they have done this for years before, but who knows? Anker and I went to our local ice cream shop and got ice cream and wandered around the park, and visited. Yes, we still do things together, and our relationship is strange. Oh, well. We also hung out yesterday (Sunday) after we went for lunch and we spent some time a couple of weeks ago, where we had a good talk about things. 

I am going to post this now, as this could random post could go on and on :) I started this at the end of June, and it is now July 14th, so I probably should post this before I never get to post it..or it gets too late to post it...lol. I hope that you are having a good summer, and enjoying all things that summer brings....

That being said...I probably should talk about the Floods down South. My heart breaks for everyone who has lost their kids and loved ones in the Camp Mystic (and area) flooding in TX. I cannot fathom that. You drop off your child at camp, and they should be alive when you pick them up. I think of my sister in the Philippines, where flash flooding is quite common, and it has happened a few times in the last few years. Whenever this happens, we are always scared or worried until we hear back from them that they are ok. I know there have been more floods in NC and NM. It's insane, and so scary (not to mention all of the fire that happened in LA in Jan). People are asking, "Where is God in all of this? Why didn't He protect the kids?". My answer is this..we live in a world of sin (and climate change). Unfortunately, things like this happen. This world is full of sin, heartache and sickness. I think God IS here in the midst. The kids' stories and lives (the ones who have lived and died), will live long after the news outlets have stopped talking about it (and they will be talking about it for a long time, I am sure). God is in their story (as He is in ours!!!), and I think His ultimate goal is for Him to be glorified and that He will play a bigger part in their stories than they ever will be! He wants the world to turn to Him, and my prayer is that someone will come to Him amidst all of this tragedy. He is the only One to turn to in our times of sorrow. Not cards, not crystals, not another god, not oils. I am thankful that this world is not our home!! 

Praying for TX, NM, and NC!!!

While there have not been a lot fires in BC (a few small fires, but nothing major...not that I have seen or heard, anyway, thank Jesus!), AB, SK, and MB have had major fires this spring and summer. I think that Manitoba has just had its second state of emergency in a month. It is scary out there. Stay safe, friends!

Again, I am thankful that this world is not our home. 

 

July 2025 (So far)

Well, I finally am able to upload photos. But, wow..what a pain. I had to download GC, which in turn means that I have to open up 3 windows before I can even access on my computer, as it doesn't seem to want to "stay" on my desktop. Then, in order to upload photos to Blogger, I can't seem to directly save them from FB (I don't upload them to the computer...I tried...my Android and my laptop don't play well together. Ugh), and THEN "download" them to my laptop. My goodness! And I don't want to use GC on everything, because, #old, and #passwords.

Anyway, I guess that is what I get for not blogging in nearly 3 years! HA! So, my July...how has it been? Well, it is has been mentally exhausting. I am **STILL** looking for work. I think God is up in Heaven, shaking His finger and head, going, "Girl, you are not seeing what I am putting in front of you." Eh, what can I do? LOL. 

July 1st (Canada Day), a friend and I went to Desert Hills. I have been back here for over 21 years, and I had not ever been there before. I think we will go back (or Anker and I might go back) in a couple of weeks or so, as there will be more produce there. It was nice to get out of town for a few hours. That evening, Anker and I went out and saw the fireworks. I thought that the place we had in mind was going to be a secret spot. I guess 30,000 people thought the same thing. It was still nice, and everyone was well-behaved. I found out later that Adam (K was away for 48 hours) and the boys were just down from us. It was nice to have a "proper" fireworks display after the drone disaster last year, and I don't think that we had had fireworks for years prior. The show was great, and I think everyone was thrilled!

Fireworks!!!!

Our weather has been up and down. We are very thankful for the rain (not a lot of fires, thank You, Lord), but we have had some hot days, which have been nice. I haven only had one "swim and sun" this summer, and it was barely sunny. I took J to the river (his choice) to swim, which he had a blast, and we had a good time.

I had J overnight one night (second time) earlier this month, and I looked after both boys for a couple of days. I went for lunch with a friend, and another friend and I went out for my belated bday lunch. The same friend (who I went to lunch with) and I went for a picnic lunch yesterday. We got stuff from 7-11, and we sat in a shaded area by the river. 

Embers Brewhouse

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We grabbed a post-lupper Drink at Starbucks :) I had an iced caramel Macchiato with Chocolate Cold Foam. Yum!

Last weekend (5th-6th), Adam asked me if I wanted to go on and adventure. I hesitated, then I said,"sure, why not?". We went to a lake that neither of us had been to, called Roche Lake. It was cool-ish, but the water was warm, which I was really surprised at. I hadn't planned on going paddling, but they "made" me go, I have paddled probably twice in my life. But it was fun, and we made some memories. I also decided to go and buy myself a life jacket. I will probably only wear it once or twice a year, but I have one now, so that is good! On Sunday, our church had its annual "Party in the Park", in which we join up with another church in a local park. We have a short service, and a BBQ. The weather was perfect, and it was a wonderful time.

I only got a few pics from the farm on Canada Day, but here is one of the best ones. I will take more next time I go. 

And that has been my July so far!! It has been a lot of up and down of emotions and situations, but I am thankful that God has and is will be ever-present in my life :)

Friday FavoUrites!

 Well, I am trying hard (-ish), to get back into blogging. Sadly, I am unable to upload pics from my photos (on my Mac Book), onto Blogger. What??? Anyway, I will try my hardest to figure it out...but until then...Friday FavoUrites!

1) I had my 3 nieces over last Friday, and it was a boot. We watched tv, went to parks, the library, played with play dough, ate did crafts, and had fun with bubbles. They were so good! I love them!

2) I met up with our pastor's wife (and my good friend) to clean out the Sunday school Room on Monday. I wasn't even sure I wanted to do it, but I think it was good for my soul to do something created/productive.

3) I met up with another friend on Tuesday for a "coffee", which turned into a snack. We had a lovely catch up visit. She said she wants to take me out for supper next week for my birthday, which was earlier this month. I just have to tell her where to meet up :)

4) I attended my nephew's grade 8 (8th grade for my American friends) grad at his school (where I used to work). It was a bit sad being there, as I think that it was probably my favourite job I have ever had. But I saw a lot of kids that I used to teach graduate, which was kind of fun.

5) I had that same nephew overnight last night, which was a favourite. We watched 3 movies, ate ribs and corn, and relaxed. It was nice. He wanted to watch Mary Poppins, which I hadn't seen in years (I have the DVD), so it was kind of fun to see that again. He also had never watched Wizard of Oz, so we watched that, too.

It's Been a Minute (About 3 Minutes!!!)

 YES! I am still alive! I also realize that it has been well over a year since I have blogged. I just haven't felt like blogging much in the last year. I don't have the energy, will, drive, nor the words to process a blog post :) I don't want to give up blogging altogether, so I will try to write more than I did last year. Also, I am shocked that blogging is still a thing. So, how do I wrap up over a year in one post? I don't :) But hey, I can try, right? I have a few posts with or without any body waiting to be written and posted, but I just haven't felt the need, or desire to. I try and go on other bloggers' sites in order to get some inspiration, but alas, I don't seem to garner any :) 

Where do I start? Uh....:) 

2022: Went to Edmonton to see my friend Crystal in August. Anker and I helped my brother and his wife renovate and move into their new house (July and August). Mom, Dad and I went to the Philippines to see my sister get married in November/December. Christmas with fam in December. I guess there was food, fun and gifts, and probably snow. Had my Day of Fun with Jill in 2022 and 2023. In 2022, we went local (I think?) again, and we had lunch at Brown's Social House, and went to a play. In 2023, we went to Kelowna and went to Davison Orchards, The Jammery, and found a couple of places that were DEVINE by Okanagan Lake, that we might go to next (now this) year. 

2023: Yah, I don't remember what we did. Ha! Life..we did life, I guess. I looked after my nephews a lot, and did my two respite jobs. In May, Mom, Dad, and Vienna's friend Cheryl (who works with her at the shelter in the Philippines) all piled in the Yukon and went to Calgary. I was able to visit Grandma for (what would be) the last time, before she went to Glory in October. Sadly (but practically), I made the decision not to go to her service. I was sad, but I knew that I had a few days (and one full day) of making $, so I didn't want to give it up. Thank goodness for Real Time Streaming Funeral services. I miss Grandma a ton; I still can't believe she is in Heaven, but I know for sure that she is having a fantastic time, and no longer in pain :) It still feels weird not to call her (and Grandpa, for that matter) and have a great chat. Sadly, in the last couple of years, phone calls with her was rough, as she was going downhill, and talking on the phone was hard for her. Vienna and Nestor came for 6 wks in September/October (Yes, they were able to see her one last time), and we all had a blast! We had a great Thanksgiving, and the next week, our "little" brother, Isaac, got married. It was a fun and small, but elegant wedding. Sadly, some of us (including the bride and groom) got sick. That's right. The Bride and Groom slept at our parents' place on their wedding night, because their small cabin has no toilet plumbing. Mom got sick as well. The next weekend, the rest of us got sick (the week or so prior, we had had a small bachlerotte party for Summer, and some of our family got sick as well (Nestor, Vienna, and other people). So, there's that. In the spring of 2023, my brother, Seth and his family came back to Canada. We weren't sure if it was going to be a short visit or if they were going to stay for awhile. They ended up staying at a friend's cabin (house sitting), so that is where they are at right now. It has been fun hanging out with them. Anker and I went and spent a weekend with them before Christmas. Their girls are so dear. I also did a ton of house sitting this summer. It was fun to have a house to myself. I only went to the beach a couple of times this summer. We went to Shuswap Lake at the end of July with Adam and family. I tried paddle boarding for the first time :) Right after that was the wild fire that ripped through the area, and burnt down trees and buildings. BC had another really bad wild fire season. It went through Okanagan, among other places. Thankfully, we were safe. We went to the ranch for a few days in August, to see my brother and his wife, who were visiting from the Island. 

June 16, 2025

WOW!!!! It has been a HOT minute (or 3!) Since I have blogged. Is that even a thing now? Do people still make money from blogging? I think blogging these days is more about cooking, decorating and style that daily life :)

But anyhoo...I shall try to resurrect this old blog, and see what happens. Not sure who wants to hear from an older, single, childless lady, but hey..you never know. I am also trying my hand at doing a channel on YT. Again..you never know :)

Let's see....what has all happened since I last published a blog post...

Went to the Philippines in November and for two days in December in 2022. Vienna *my baby sis) found a Filipino man, is such a pet, and they got married. If you have never been in or at a wedding in 40c+ heat (with humidity), you have not yet lived! 

My friend, Jill and I have gone on two of our Annual Day of Fun events. One was to Davison Orchards, and to Upside Cider, near Vernon, and the next year (last year was to Kalamalka Lake for what I call, a Swim and Sun. Sadly, there wasn't a lot of sun, as it was a bit gray, but it was still a fun time. We went to Cactus Club Cafe for a late night snack. We are looking forward to this year's day of fun :)

Our youngest brother got married, they had a baby, August, born in November. Vienna had a baby in December 2024, Joshua, who is adorable!!! Seth and Naomi are still in BC, and they have #4 now, another girl, Arianna, who was born the end of March.

Anker and I separated for 6 months last year, and I went back for 9 months, and then I left again at the end of March (it's ok, we are still doing things together and working on our stuff, I always say that nothing is forever), had 3 jobs, left those 3 jobs (not all at once), had a car accident in January, had to buy a new car (I love it), Mom nearly died in January (she has a Pacemaker...invented by a Canadian, btw..you're welcome!...we call her Robot Mom now), got a kitty from a friend, and a whole bunch of stuff that I can't remember. Life is never dull, y'all!!! I think that sums up the last 2.5 years!! I might be our church's Sunday school Director/Co-oridinator, so that is kind of fun. It makes me out to be so adult!!!

A Little Catch Up & A Small Rant(and a Surprise!)

Howdy! Well, as my aunt says, "I'm so far behind, I'm ahead", so I think I will take a page from her play book and just start "over again". Here are a few things that have been new and exciting around here :)

It has been COLD, y'all! It started snowing last Thursday, and no one was prepared for it. I had to go "up the hill" (as we locals call it), and I kept swerving all over the road. It melted the next day, and then started up again on Saturday, and it didn't stop really until Sunday night. Fun times. It is only -8C, but it feels like -16c. Brrr!!! The ranch got 15cms of now yesterday. Hello, winter, indeed! The winter tires are going on tomorrow!

I have been "busy" with 3-4 jobs. I look after a young girl for a couple of hours after school; I look after my nephews when needed; I do respite for a friend's sister, and I have been walking my friend's dog. I also have watching too much TV, reading too many magazines, and lazying about. I wish I could say that I have been walking every day for the last while, but I have not. 

I know it has been a month since, but I didn't talk about Thanksgiving, so I will highlight that here. We had Thanksgiving :) It was fun, and we ate lots :) In Canada, Thanksgiving is the second weekend in October, and I always joke that our Thanksgiving is really at the proper time :) We met at my parents', as we usually do. Anker and I went out on Saturday, just in time for dinner. The weather was pretty good; if I can recall. We also played "Code Names", which at first I didn't like, but after a few minutes, I really got into it! Dinner was delicious, and we had the added bonus of hanging out with 9 (reduced down to 7) adorable Guard Dog puppies! They are just the sweetest things. I wish I could have gone out a week or so again, and play with the puppies one last time, but it never really worked out, so I will have to wait until Christmas (they are keeping two) for us to see them again. They will be nearly 3 months old when we see them again. They won't be cute puppies anymore, but oh well :) Mom says that they are simply adorable; cute and fat. The next day, Sunday, we celebrated J's birthday. We had a fun afternoon of cake, tea and presents. 

My church had a games night October 1st, which was fun. Some of us from the church were also invited to a congregant's surprise 60th birthday party the other week. It was a fun evening, filled with food, fun, and laughter. Some of us got to experience a Vietnamese at home feast the other Sunday. I might have skipped church the last couple of Sundays, due to cold weather, and my trying to semi-quarantine (which, clearly, hasn't been working out so well!), but I was darned if I was going to miss that! I actually wasn't going to go, but I felt that I had to support them. They moved into their new house, and they invited anyone for lunch after church. I believe there are 12 members who are living together. They came from Vietnam a few years ago, then moved to Kamloops a few years ago. They are the sweetest family. The food was delicious! Did you know that BBQ is popular in Vietnam? I had no idea It was fun to hang out and get to know them better. I forgot my phone in the car, so I couldn't take any pics, but believe me, it was really neat! Our ladies got together the other Thursday for a chilli night. It was so fun! We also decided to start a "secret sister" "program" (for lack of a better word). It had been brought up the month before, when we had a Pumpkin Spice ladies' night (which was also fun!). Most of the ladies hadn't heard of it. Can you imagine? We had to explain how it worked. So, it was decided that we start one up. 

I have been still going over to Emily's for movie nights. We even had one or two with our new neighbour; Sarah. It has been fun getting to know her a bit better. Anker celebrated his 60th birthday as well last month. We had birthday waffles with A and K, and then we just hung out for the rest of the day. He didn't really want anything, and as usual, didn't have a ton of money, so we just relaxed. I did get him a fun cake and a pie, though.

I met up with my friend (twice in on week!) up for coffee this last week. We always have a fun chat when we visit. We somehow always find something to talk about. We met up at Starbucks one day, and then on this last Saturday, we met at Blenz (a BC-owned coffee chain) for Eggnog lattes before I went shopping. 

....and now for the surprise...I am going to the Philippines! Why, do you ask? My sister is getting married! Yah, we are all pretty surprised, too! Ha! If you have been following me along for any length of time, you know that my sister has been living in the Philippines on and off for the last 6 yrs. She met her fiancé a year and a half ago, and they got engaged in the summer. Mom, Dad & I are all going. We 3 are the only ones vxd, and are able to go. My aunt and uncle bought me a ticket, otherwise I wouldn't be able to go. I am anxious, nervous and scared. I haven't travelled since 1996! I was given the medical clearance to fly (I have a few health conditions, as you know); btwn my sleep machine (heart/lung issues), my sort of history of blood clots, and my diabetes, I wasn't sure if I could go on that long of a flight/so far away. Oh, and on top of that, I am pretty sure I am going through menopause..oh, gooddeee. My passport came last week (Yay!), and I got my necessary poisons  shots, I bought the health insurance, sandals and the dress, and here we are! Anker's sister bought him a flight to Victoria while I am away; which was very sweet. It will give him something to do while I am away. I am going to be gone for 3 weeks! EEEKKK!! My mom has already been there twice (V wanted her to go and meet the boyfriend), so she is a pro now! My dad is going, too! Can you imagine? He has got to California and Mexico, but this is going to be first time going so far away. I will most likely do all of mt blogging when I come, but I will try to post pics as much as I can along the way.

....and now for a rant (or two!). I have a love hate relationship with social media (mainly IG and blogging) lately. I feel that it is either about what they bought, "look at me/what I did", and it has been driving me crazy. I mean, I get so tired of people posting about stuff they bought. This world, I feel, is just out to buy, buy, buy. I cannot tell you how many of my blogs in my blog feed talks about what they bought, and I am not talking about Christmas and special times of the year. This happens allll time. I feel like people are trying to compete with one another, solely on what they can (not) afford/buy. Go on IG (or any SM platform, really) and it won't be long until you realize that you are OLD. Girls who are in their 20s and 30s seem to have taken IG over by storm. And don't even talk to me about the 30 yr olds (or younger) who have a large following, and then think they know it all, so they write a book. Then, they advertise their book. I mean, really. Who died and made you queen of-whatever-the-book-is-about's-subject? But let's get back to those people who buy, just because, shall we? I have found that this is a larger-than-life-subject. People will, with no thought or reason behind why they bought their item....just...buy...just because. And what does that do for their self worth? Not to mention, the amount of junk and useless items that they have in their homes that end of being used once or twice, and then thrown away in an attic or a basement; basically being stored away. Anyway, what is just what is been on my mind the last bit :) Take that for what it's worth.

Drinking some Pumpkin Spice Latte, and reading my magazines out with the leaves :)

Friday Favourites (and Happy Thanksgiving!)

 It is Tuesday and I actually have a lot of favourites already! Well, it is now in the early morning hours of Saturday, and it is Thanksgiving Long Weekend here in Canada. We are headed up to the ranch in the morning. Looking forward to family, food, football (not really), fellowship, foliage, family, more food, faith, and fun.. So, let's get started!

1) My new favourite song is "What He's Done". I LOVE it! I found it on Andrea's blog/IG when she posted a video about her daughter singing in their church choir. I had to find the song (I actually had found it awhile back, but when I saw it again, I wanted to know what the song was, so I picked up my sleuthing hat a decided to find out...via finding out their church, finding the song, etc....). I absolutely love the song!!

2) Our church had a game night on Saturday, and it was a hoot. We played Jenga, and some people played Taboo, and the kids played Laser Tag upstairs. A couple of other people and myself started playing Yahtzee, and then we had to pack it up. LOL. We had food, which is always a good thing!

3) A friend and I went for a wine tasting at a local winery on Sunday. The tasting itself only took a few minutes, but we sat and and drank a cider outside and chatted outside in the cool, crisp fall air for two hours!!!

4) Coffee with a friend on Tuesday! As of early Tuesday morning, this hasn't happened yet, but it will. Well, it is now late Friday night, and I am trying to finish this off, so I can post it before I leave for the ranch tomorrow (Saturday). Coffee with my friend on Tuesday was wonderful. It had been ages since we had gone out for coffee together, and we had a lovely time :) I had a couple of movie nights with my next door neighbour, Emily this week, too. I also had a coffee with my respite client/friend at a local coffee shop. I have gotten bread and treats from them before, but I don't know if I had ever sat and had coffee there. I had a steamer and a cream puff. Yum!

5) Fall leaves are well, falling, and changing. Also, Jim Gaffigan does a funny sketch on fall and the leaves, which is pretty funny (and accurate). I love the cooler weather; the days are perfect; crisp and cool, and nights are definitely feeling more fall/winter.

6) Waking up to extra money in my account on Wednesday was most definitely a FAVOURITE! That was totally God!!! I tithed a few days prior (I have a hard time doing it, but I know that is what Jesus wants us to do; so I do it "when I can"-which is a bad excuse, I know), and when I woke up to what I thought was going to be MAYBE a $100 in my account was a bit more than that :) 

7) I found a cute new weather app; called Weather Kitty. It is so cute! It has pictures of kitties that coincide with the weather and the time of day. I read about it in a cat magazine, so I thought it would be fun to try it out :) Of course, there is always a "premium" (pd) option, which is much more fun; with fun pictures, etc. But I won't give in to that (though I do love me a premium account on Spotify!). I also downloaded a couple of more apps this last week, but I haven't had the chance to really explore them yet, and one isn't even working.

8) Good/New TV is back; and that makes me happy. I will probably do a TV post soon, to talk about all of my hours of useless TV that I watch :) I only found out a month or so ago that this will be New Amsterdam's last season! They announced that back in the spring, and I have recollection of reading/hearing that anywhere. I just now finished the last 8 or 9 episodes of The Resident from last season! Can you believe that I went all summer without finishing last season?? I just wasn't in the mood to watch them until a few days ago. Weird, I know. Also, who else thinks that the girls who play Luna (NA), and GiGi (TR) are the most adorable things you've ever seen? 

9) Ginger Peach / Peach Ginger juice is one my favourite drinks. My brother told me about it this summer, so I grabbed a pack (actually, I grabbed one out of their fridge before to try it out), and it is delicious! I bought a pack yesterday; and I am loving it! I don't think I had posted on IG or FB before (and certainly not on here), that I found my new favourite drink. It is from the PC Brand (Loblaw's' store brand), and it is delicious. Is it pop? Is it iced tea? Is it juice? Who knows? It is DELICIOUS!!

10) Getting healthier/Walking, etc. I am trying to do a bit more walking, and taking my BP more. I also think I have lost a few pounds, so that is always a plus :) I am also in a couple of health programs (am I doing a great job at following them? Maybe....), but at least I am trying :) 

10.1) Finding out when W Network will air their Countdown to Christmas movies was most definitely a favourite from this week. I may or may not still have Christmas movies from last year that I haven't watched yet :) It starts October 21st. Not that I am counting, or anything! I am pretty sure that they started earlier last year (I think that was the first time that they had started C2C that early). I like that they are still airing fall themed-movies for at least some of October :)

Linking up with Andrea and Erika for another edition of Friday Favourites!

This blog post has been put together at different points throughout the week (well, at two points). I started one the main faves on Tuesday, and I elaborated on them (and added more info) today. Basically, this wasn't done in one linear post. Also, I want to get this out on the link-y thing, so I am not going to link anything now, but I might post some links later this weekend. Have a wonderful (Thanksgiving/Long) Weekend, everyone! 

Friday Favourites

Happy Friday, friends! Today (30th of Sept), I am going to concentrate on Truth and Reconciliation day,  and some of my favourites related to that. If you don't know what that is, Google is your friend, but it used to be called Orange Shirt Day. This day in the past has not been a day off, but two or three years ago, our federal government declared this day a stat holiday, and this year was the second year in a row that this has been day off. You can get more information about Orange Shirt Day and Phyllis Webstad here.

                                                                   (not my photo)

1) My favourite orange shirt is one I got last summer from a lady who was selling them for a friend. I got Anker and I both one, and although it doesn't look great on me, I love the message. One of my favourite scrunchies comes from SProductsDesignStyle. It is orange and funds from that went to Kamloops Indian Residential School Survivors' Fund.

                                                                 Taken Sept 30th, 2022

2) My favourite movie (I admit I don't watch a lot..I have to get better at that) surrounding this subject is "Indian Horse". I watched it this evening with my friend. I was procrastinating watching it for years, b/c I knew that it would be sad. Mom watched it a year or so ago, and warned me. I was very angry when it was done.

3) Tk'emlúps is one of my favourite places to be. We sit on the unceded territory of the Secwépemc Tk'emlúps First Nation People. The name means "The Meeting of the Waters", and it does have two waters that meet in town. The North (from the valley) Thompson and the South (that comes out of the Secwépemc (Shuswap) Lakes.

                                            Taken Sept 30th from different areas in Kamloops. 

This photo was taken this last summer. It shows the two different rivers joining, and their distinct colours. The NT River is muddy, and the ST River is clear :)

4) My favourite Secwépemc museum has been closed since CVD, and it is just a wonderful source of information. I went to the website, and it still says it is closed, and I hope that they reopen. If you are local, keep this site bookmarked for a future field trip.

5) Although I am not great at watching/listening to a lot of First Nation programming, I have watched some shows on APTN, & CBC always have some wonderful and educational programming. I also have listened to a podcast on Spotify called "Kuper Island". I haven't even finished it yet. That is how bad I am at listening (though I am not a huge podcast listener, anyway). Our local radio station (Country 103) even did a "Day of Listening" on the station today. They had several First Nation People talking about their experiences, etc.

6) This baby at a Saskatchewan Powwow went viral in August and it was the most adorable thing I have ever seen! Click here to take a look and listen :) You will thank me later.

7) One of my favourite First Nation people to follow is Ashley Callingbull. I follow her on IG, and I love her. I first heard of her when I saw her on Amazing Race Canada a few years back. She is from the Enoch Cree First Nation reserve in Alberta, and she is stunning and as she is educational :) There are also a few others who I follow. One lady (and I cannot remember her name on IG. I have been trying to find her online for a half hour) is a phenomenal dancer. I also follow James Jones on IG, and he has some wonderful funny skits/videos that the does. I also have started following Wad Kinew on IG, but I learned about him last year, as he spoke in the House of Commons. I think I follow him on FB.

8) I love bannock, salmon, and berries. I enjoyed watching the Salmon run a few years ago when I was working at the school. It was an hour or so away, and it was so fun! Every four years they do Salute to the Sockeye Salmon every four years. It is super fun!!! We had an Indigenous cafe open awhile back, and I cannot wait to try it one day. Kekuli Cafe primarily serves bannock, and I have heard that it is fantastic! 

9) I have looked through a few books about First Nation History. I haven't fully read one (yah, I know..I am terrible), but one book that I have looked through a few times is called, They Called Me Number One. Another book that I have read through a couple of times is written by the lady who started the "Orange Shirt Day" movement/awareness, Phyllis Webstad called Beyond the Orange Shirt Story, and one for children called, Phyllis's Orange Shirt. I have a couple of books out from the library now; one being called 21 Things that You May Not Know About The Indian Act. And yes, I have read through some of it. Another book I have out called is called Standoff. There are also a few children's books that I have read that talk about the Residential schools that I have taken out of the library and I have read in recent years. One is called Shin-Chi's Canoe. There are lots of more, of course, but I won't bother with naming/linking the books. One more that I like is called, I Lost My Talk (She also has written one called "I'm Finding My Talk"). I would say that one of the best places to learn about the Residential Schools (and their survivors) would be to check out National Centre for Truth and Reconciliation.  The Truth and Reconciliation Commission was formed in 2008 to tell survivor's stories. I have this bookmarked on/to my favourites on my laptop. I should look at it more than I do :)

10) I have a friend who is First Nations, and we spend quite a bit of time together. I will sometimes ask her about her traditions, food, teachings, her growing up years, etc :) I love learning from others. 

I am linking up with Andrea and Erika for Friday FavoUrites :)

FYI: This post took me about 2-3 hours to write. Btwn links, wanting to get correct information, getting photos; this took ages :)